I love TJ Maxx and I love the rewards dollars but with their current lack of modern day security measures, I don't want their bank card with them.
A bit about me is below in my profile. But what may also be helpful are some possibly surprising bits about me (some can be very divisive issues, depending on the person, so I like to be up front)
If you easily get offended or defensive, explore why, within yourself. Not as something to fix, perhaps, but rather as a revelation of something you truly love.