Some of these views may not be what you want to hear. I offer these less popular views because so many ideas like “if you can dream it, you can live it” are getting so much attention, and aren’t true, causing a lot of problems, for many people in key areas of life and living. To some people, they’d rather chase the dream than be real about the situation. And I respect that. A life can be made from many differing approaches. Still I offer my contrarian, realistic idealist views knowing someone can agree with me or not, as the agency I encourage and prompt within everyone.