Practitioners: Do you feel superior to your clients, potential clients?

Sharing another way to offer yourself as a practitioner that better supports everyone’s ability to feel whole and complete, right where they are.

For anyone offering their services, this may be helpful. I find my audience to be very intelligent, capable and able to think for themselves. I imagine that my audience senses I feel about them in that way, and appreciates it.
 
I’m not chasing them down, pretending that they need me.
 
But I do have valuable tools and insights to offer. But that doesn’t mean they need me… They are whole and complete at their soulful layers, and they can feel that here in this life. It is amazing.
 
And it isn’t requiring perfection… thank God.
 
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It doesn’t feel good to be disrespected. And even for those less intuitive, they can sense when they are treated as less than whole and complete.
 
But some teachers and practitioners cannot help themselves from acting superior to others. They are sure that everyone needs to know what they know, be “where they are energetically”. I feel this in telesummit type experiences regularly ~ this desire/need to get everyone to a certain level. It is arrogant and condescending ime. But their belief system actually is stuck in that arrogance.
 
Do you feel this, too?
 
What if someone’s soulful layers is not troubled by their present range of consciousness and doesn’t need their human self to reach any certain level? That is an entirely different operating model (which I use, with amazing outcomes).
 
“But are you saying our teams/higher self/soulful layers don’t care about their human self’s pain and suffering?” No, I’m not saying that at all. But the soulful layers natural compassion and love doesn’t mean they feel like they can fix/remove it… This reality allows for a wide, and widening, range of experiences, which includes the ability to be in pain and suffering. Just because that is available here doesn’t mean God likes it, condones it or orchestrates it.
 
Pain and suffering happens here.
 
And it regularly isn’t personal to you, nor meant for you.
 
“But everything happens for a reason.” No, actually it doesn’t, not here.
 
From this original, updated belief system you and everyone is better able to liberate themselves from any pain and suffering they may be enduring.
 
And they may ask for your help, or mine, or someone else’s.
 
But if practitioners continue to act (and believe) that one’s pain and suffering is purposeful, necessary and personal to the sufferer, then there is automatically a condescension… that that person could have avoided that pain and suffering… if they
“were more conscious”,
“were at a higher vibration”,
“were more evolved as a soul”,
“were more positive”,
“had the right crystals”,
“had the right essential oil combo”,
“were doing the right daily meditations”,
“had done their work”…
But these aren’t true statements.
 
Using them all the time doesn’t make them true. We don’t create our own reality. Saying that isn’t mean. It’s just honest. Which more and more people seem to be open to, and appreciating.
 
And on some level of self, at our soulful layers, we know those ideas aren’t true. So to act as if someone is at another level, below you, that your soul is more evolved than theirs, is just icky. And to treat others as if they *need* your help, isn’t nearly as empowering as acting and treating yourself and others as the perpetually evolved souls we each are, and each of us has created a human that we each get to be, which can and does involve pain and suffering to varying degrees. And it isn’t personal.
 
As a practitioner, I offer, share and am my self, my love and my soulful layers and my gifts and abilities. I present myself alongside you, as a peer, an advocate for humanity’s greatness and well being. That is my intention. And I do make mistakes, even by my own standards.
 
My belief structure allows me to respect, love and honor you, your choices, and be able to be compassionate about any pain and suffering you may have ~ without pretending “you could have avoided it if you’d just let me help you” or, even worse, if I was pretending I could “fix you”… ick. You don’t need fixing. We all have areas for improvement. And we all have areas of specialty, greatness, glory. All alongside each layer of self, at the same time. At the same “vibration.”
 
I hope this helps. Didn’t mean for it to be this long. But I have an aggressive healer messaging me on Facebook trying to offer some fix or another. It seems she’s got a hammer and everyone is a nail. As a result of her assertiveness this all just popped up and out that I felt led to share.
 
With love,
Jill
 
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